Being a single mum is the hardest job I've ever done. I also happen to love it more than anything. I work around the clock — there are no sick days (definitely no personal days either). I raise my daughter completely on my own and still make all the money as our sole income. Related Videos: 31 Musical Baby Names That Will Add a Whole Lot of Rhythm to Your Life 30 Things Single Mums Want You to Know The Reason Behind This 18 Year Old's Tattoo Will Make You 1 Cry and 2 Call Your Parents There's no partner to vent to at the end of the day or someone who comes home to pick up half the slack. I pay the bills, cook the meals, clean the house, carpool to gymnastics class, and still find time to spend with my daughter, who I do everything for. So, the next time you want to judge a book by its cover (or a single mum by her unwashed hair and unbelievably messy house), try to remember people go through things you might never understand. But just in case you want to...
Small changes to your parenting style can have a big impact on your children 1 STOP PUNISHING YOUR CHILD Guiding and correcting children's misbehavior is vital to help them learn to make better choices. Sometimes that means letting them suffer the consequences of their behavior. But correcting their behavior doesn't need punishment. - 5 Tips For Good Parenting 2 LET YOUR CHILD KNOW WHAT THEY DID RIGHT Catching children being good is a great balance for those times when we might find them misbehaving and have to correct them. 3 CREAT ACHIEVABLE OBJECTIVES In life we often need a challenge to motivate us to put in effort. Children need challenges too. However, we have to be mindful to set the challenges up such that they are hard enough to motivate them to strive to achieve them, without being too hard, such that they appear to fail all the time. 4 SPEND MORE TIME BEING ACTIVE AND IN THE OUTDOORS Not only does this have a health benefit for you and your...
I have one standout memory from my childhood: I was a toddler, and I kept reaching for a cookie sheet that had just come out of the oven. I knew it was hot, but I guess I was curious to find out exactly how hot. (Kids are so weird.) My dad, sick of me not listening to my mom's warnings, finally said, "Go ahead, touch it." As you might imagine, I burned my fingers on contact and began scream-crying with swollen hands. But hey, you can bet that I never tried to touch a hot pan again. - 5 Tips For Good Parenting To this day, I'm still determining whether that was an example of cruelty or tough love, but I did learn my lesson. Fast forward to me today, at 24 years old (my fingers are fine by the way), and I honestly couldn't be prouder of who and where I am at this semi-early stage in my life. And I genuinely believe that my tough love upbringing played a role. Beyond that one example, there were plenty more that followed, in which I had to learn to...
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