9 Backhanded Compliments Parents Get at Restaurants
Before I had children, I used to love going out to
dinner. I would pick out the perfect outfit, my girlfriends and I would drink
our favorite cocktails, and I would eat (and actually enjoy) food without a
care in the world.
Gone are the cute outfits and funny cocktail
conversation, and instead come bulky diaper bags and nicely worded threats to
"eat your dinner now."
And total strangers suddenly become very
interested in why you're out to eat with all your children. Through talking to
other mums, I've discovered nine backhanded "compliments" people
think it's OK to say to parents while dining out with children.
"You really have your hands full, don't you?”
Really? I wasn't aware.
"Your daughter has a boy haircut," or the
equally judge-y, "I see you got into Mommy's nail polish, little
guy."
Or they're just freely expressing themselves?
"Wow, three boys! You must be dying for a
girl."
Nope, I'm fine.
"Are they all yours?," or the rudest,
"Do they all have the same dad?"
ARE YOU KIDDING ME?!
"Aren't you brave coming here with all of them on
your own!"
They're my kids, lady, not wild animals off the street.
"Wow, you sure have a lot of kids!"
And your point is?
"Your partner is SO good with them!"
Maybe that's because they're the other parent.
When someone tells you your family is adorable, but
their smile tells you they're more worried about the potential noise.
Don't worry, we won't disturb your precious meal.
"Cherish this time, they grow up so fast."
My child is climbing on the table, so that's not a moment
I feel I need to cherish. But thanks.
And that rare, magical moment you actually get a real
compliment about your kids' behavior.
Yes, they do have really good manners!
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